...okay, so it's not the ram that's not working properly. I sent it in, they tested it, and it's working fine, apparently. My comp wouldn't even start with the ram in it. It's not a compatibility issue either, it's been running fine since august. So I guess what's left to do is try to get a better psu and test it with, and possibly sned in both the mb and ram 
and every time they don't find anything wrong, it costs me like £40 :/ :/ :/
and every time they don't find anything wrong, it costs me like £40 :/ :/ :/