Dont worry about it mate - its good to get these things out of the way early on and I think we all played pretty confusedly.
I'll try not to get quite so involved next time i.e. I'll yell less
Also I think I need to spend some time playing with shadow a bit more as she didnt have a clue what was happening which made it very frustrating.
The quests we did were good though so last night was definately worth doing