No "/give Trax 8 1"
Thats the minecraft version of
Aguamenti
Fair enough if you lose all items on death, but when you respawn, your stuff should be where you left it, so provided someone doesnt pour lava over you, then you should be able to get it back.
What do you define as "unrealistic shit"? E.g. a massive hole in the ground that definitely needs scaffolding? OR a skycity?
I'd say that the whole point of minecraft is to break through the unrealistic barrier, so that you can build this sort of stuff?