I live in Sandhurst during the holidays, and Southampton during term-time. I love and hate them both.
Sandhurst is great for being quiet enough to be counted as "rural" (even with the RMA), yet I can get nice fast ADSL connections. However, the rearest proper town is Reading, which I can get to by the 15 minute train that goes through Sandhurst every hour, or the bus every 15 minutes that takes an hour! Rather annoying if I want to do something...
Southampton is nice cos there is a fair amount to do, there is more then one pub (and its not an old man pub), there are multiple cinemas, sports facilities, etc. However, from my room, I never hear the traffic stop. There is always at least one car or lorry going past (lorries are usually around 7am), and after living at the bottom of an estate, next to a forest you whole life, those sounds wake me up A LOT!
HOWEVER! Southampton isn't a horrid big city like London (hate the place - too big, too many people, too smelly, too grumpy, and too eugh!). Best quote from one of mine and thatbloke's lecturers: "Pick your nose after a day in Southampton, and then pick your nose after a day in London - Which one is black?"
Eric Cooke ftw! \o/
So, where would I rather live... Well... Sandhampton of course!
I couldn't say town or country, I need somewhere in between...